Hello, everyone!
Apologies for missing the last couple radio shows. This evening I had maintenance people resolving a plumbing issue. Even though I’m pretty certain I’m known as “the phone sex lady”* in my building, there’s still room for plausible denial. I’m keeping it.
Wordpress, the engine that powers blogs here at LDW, has been updated and it’s resulted in my blog looking screwy. Fingers crossed it gets unscrewy soon.
I have a new enrollee in Ms Julia’s School for Recidivist StrokerBoys. His name is J. Unlike most students, he has no problem maintaining an erection. He just can’t stop stroking. When he reached out (with his non-stroking hand of course, [ smile ]), he was masturbating sometimes 10 times in a day. In the space of a few weeks, J. is managing a ration of 30 strokes a day and 3 orgasms a week. Don’t forget, the school for Recidivist StrokerBoys has rolling admissions.
Earlier in the week, The Washington Post had this article about the ideal length of sexual intercourse. Huh. Please, go ahead, read it. If my university doesn’t subscribe to the Journal of Sexual Medicine, any readers out there able to provide access? Because I want to see how this study done. Did they make a note of how often women orgasmed? Was that number plotted against the length of intercourse? How long was foreplay in all of these couplings and was there a correlation between length of foreplay and orgasm? Or did they not even pay attention to that because they had the women in charge of the stopwatch? Oh yes, nothing makes me enjoy sex like having my mind on something else. The story implies that men shouldn’t worry because most people fall between 3-13 minutes. But are most people having good sex? And what the hell, Washington Post? You let people comment on just about every other story but you’re blocking comments on the sex stories? Liberal paper my sexy ass.
On Femdomme Nation, the internet mistress online radio show, we’ve touched on how what makes good sex and how callers can use their fetish phone sex sessions to have more good sex.
Endurance. Matters.
Got it? Good.
Last bout of good sex I had. My partner and I had flirted by text (SMS, cellphone) for hours. When we finally got together, foreplay (lots of kissing, stroking, touching, oral) lasted more than hour. When penetration finally occurred, he was begging for it. He turned tables on me once he was in me and had me begging him to fuck my brains out: he spent a few moments slowly pulling himself almost out and then ramming it in to me. That was a nice touch. From moment of penetration to moment of liftoff, we’re talking 10-15 minutes.
A man who doesn’t have control over himself can’t change strokes up on his partner. A minute-man can’t fuck his partner’s brains out because the minute he’s in, he’s lost to the pull of his own orgasm. Tease and denial, chastity games too, teaches the male control over his orgasm and his body. Once he has that, he can use that control to tease and tantalize his partner and in turn rock her world. And more often than not, fucking your partner’s brains out is part and parcel of rocking her world.
To be continued….
*Neighbors keep asking if I have a roommate. The sweet would-be librarian they see in the hallway and in the elevators doesn’t jibe with the phone sex femdom they sometimes hear (sometimes I pace my apartment while on calls). Sensual domination can be intense.
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